neck kissing is honestly the hottest, most seductive thing anybody could ever do to me. if you kiss my neck, if you playfully bite my neck, if your tongue touches my neck i will melt in your fingertips.
you are in college
you are female
you have a pretty good idea of what you want to do with your life
you are short (under 5’4)
you text a lot
you are single, but like someone
you like a lot of different kinds of music
you are close with your mom
you don’t have a job
you have a horrible fear of bees
you have quite a few guilty pleasures
you don’t have many scars
you stay up late
you dye your hair
you enjoy iced coffee
you drink occasionally
you like to shop and by this i mean grocery shopping
your grades are fairly good
you are lazy
you are paranoid
you have a dog
you would consider going to law school
you would consider plastic surgery of some kind
you are somewhat superstitious
your first name is short (4 letters or less)
you have/had a piercing other than ears
you are not very athletic
you watch a lot of television
you read a lot
you get nervous easily
you have blue eyes
you are disorganized
you feel that you are friendly
you donate time or money to charitable organizations
you don’t hear very well
you are pale
you have a tumblr
people ask for your advice
& you also ask for advice a lot
you like sushi
you’ve been out of the country
you have a food allergy
summer is your favorite season
your birthday is in the spring
your parents are divorced
you have moved multiple times
people think you are funny
but you have a weird sense of humor
you carry a purse
you think a lot
you seem shy, but only when you first meet someone
you like parties
something on your body hurts right now
you have a sensitive nose
you often have strange dreams
you are a bit on the hyper side
for like 5 seconds i can understand some lesbians’ biphobia because it can come from a place of deep insecurity and a feeling of inadequacy or inability to compete with men
but then its like they say the gross shit like “therefore i wont date any bi women” or…
Sorry but no. Have you ever taken into account how a gay/lesbian person may feel about dating bisexuals because they’ve had bad run ins with them? If you ask me that seems pretty justified. But hey they’re the ones being biphobic because they’re looking out for their well being. Shame on them for not wanting to get hurt. Yeah, and you don’t get to tell them what is and isn’t good for them either.
Oh and you don’t get to police what is an isn’t biphobia just because you’re bisexual or a guy for that matter.
it doesn’t matter if they’ve had bad run ins. bisexual people are not more likely to cheat on their partner than lesbians or straight people are. just because someone’s bisexual doesn’t mean they’re ‘slutty’ or untrustworthy. you’re justifying people applying a negative and inaccurate trope to bisexuals in order to ‘look out for themselves’. lesbians aren’t at risk of getting hurt just by dating bisexual people.
I never once said that bisexuals were slutty, can they be? Very much so just like anyone else, but thanks for trying to twist my words up. Let’s try avoiding that shall we? Moving on now, I understand how it can be frustrating, but at the end of day, it’s not up to you who a gay/lesbian person dates. Take that in stride and move on. OR! Better yet, try getting their story, try to understand them before you go postal because someone doesn’t want to date you.
If you’re more concerned with who someone dates vs them just being happy then you aren’t that much better than the bat shit crazy homophobes who try to police who we should be with.
Yes, we get it you’re bi. No not all of you are sluts. No the world isn’t out to get you. Maybe we wanna date you maybe we don’t. No it’s none of your damn business as to why we choose not to. Yes you can get over it because you don’t have much of a choice. Truth, it happens.
i put “slutty” in quotes because i dont think its a valid term to describe a girl - its a misogynistic slur used to shame girls for being sexually active and its really really gross. i didnt mean to insinuate that you said they were sluts. but you’re gross for just now saying that some bi girls/some girls in general are slutty.
and im not forcing anybody to date someone. im saying that the reasons behind someone saying they wouldn’t date someone from a certain group, like the bisexual community, is disgusting and prejudiced. those people need to change their perceptions of bi people and their subsequent treatment toward bi people.
attributing a few instances to a whole and disregarding an entire group of people is ridiculous. like i understand bad experiences but that means you don’t date THAT ONE PERSON again. it doesn’t give you justification to say ALL bisexuals are bad/cheating/never want to date any bisexuals ever again. that’s crazy ignorant, yo.
like, hey my dentist scraped my gums too hard and they bled so i’m never going to any dentists ever again. i know that’s just a metaphor but i think it lends itself to queercookies argument pretty well :*